The ceremony should feel like the two of you, not like somebody found it in a folder marked WEDDING. If you want relaxed, romantic, funny, elegant, short or somewhere in the middle, say that first. The words and structure get easier from there.


Keep speeches purposeful, let the kitchen do its job and leave enough room for conversation, photos and the bits nobody could have planned. A good MC knows when to move things forward and when to leave a great moment alone.